Finding Drug and Alcohol Treatment for a Loved One Can be Difficult.

September 6, 2018

By Kyle McGraw, LPC, LADC


There are many vital aspects of successful substance abuse recovery. TLCC provides outpatient therapy for addicts and their family members, but it is important to determine what stage of recovery a person is at, in order to provide the right level of care.There are many important aspects to consider in making the best decision for care and our therapists are able to help you navigate these waters, to ensure a greater possibility for successful recovery. The following are some important considerations in selecting the right level of care and the right facilities.

1. Assessment by a trained professional. We first start with an assessment with a licensed drug and alcohol counselor trained to decide what level of care is needed to treat your loved one. Not all clients are suited for outpatient therapy because their addiction and/or mental health may not be stable enough to follow a treatment plan in an outpatient setting.Many who are addicted require inpatient treatment to provide both medical detox and a therapeutic environment, until they can safely stay sober being in their current environment.

2. Finding a quality facility to work with the addicts’ recovery needs, medical needs and financial needs. TLCC can provide the assessment and will work with many treatment facilities based upon the clients age, gender, traumatic history and many other variables. We can help you sort through this maze. There are many great treatment centers available, but there are also some that do not meet standards of quality. And, it can be difficult to differentiate between the two. Be wary of treatment centers that spend more time listing their amenities, rather than on their clinical treatment.

Good treatment addresses mind, body, and spirit for both the individual and family. You will want a facility that can address both mental health and the substances that are being used and abused. This type of treatment is referred to as co-occurring disorder treatment. It is crucial that the facility address the symptoms of early withdrawal and detox as a part of their treatment protocol. As a person goes through detox, there are often critical medical issues that need to be addressed as the body goes through withdrawal symptoms. Often times this requires medical supervision and intervention.

3. Economics and location. There are a number of other considerations in finding the right treatment facility.Economics can play a role: Some facilities are state-funded, while others accept insurance or are strictly private pay. Geography plays a role as well. It is important to select a facility far enough away from home, that it would deter your loved one from leaving the program prematurely. It is important that the client be far enough away from the distractions of home, drug dealers and other negative influences, so that they cannot interfere.

4. Finding family and relationship support, while your loved one is in treatment. While in treatment, family members are encouraged to seek their own forms of treatment. Understanding their role in the family can be helpful to each individual.It is important to prepare family members for a "new normal," in the way communication and feelings are expressed during and after discharge from treatment. One way to think about these changes is to recognize that everyone in the family needs some level of help. Help can be in the form of counseling for individuals and family members. Support programs, such as Parents Helping Parents, Al-Anon, NAMI, Celebrate Recovery and counseling, can also help to augment the treatment process. ( see resources at www.tlccok.com )

5. Another important consideration is release forms. You will want to request that your loved one sign a release form once admitted to treatment so that you can receive updates on their progress as well as participate in any educational or family counseling that is so needed for healing to occur for your family.

Evaluating the many different aspects of care can play an important role in the success a client has in their recovery.You don’t have to do this alone. Treatment is available for your loved one and support is available for you, as well. Start the process of healing today. Call us for more help at (405) 246-LIFE.

Kyle McGraw is who is dually licensed as a drug and alcohol counselor as well as a licensed professional counselor. He is the owner of Transforming Life Counseling Center and has worked in the field of addiction and mental health for 30 years. Over the years, Kyle has worked and referred many to local and nationally known treatment centers.

December 2, 2025
2025 has been another year filled with joy, growth, and meaningful service as Transforming Life Counseling Center continues its mission to support the mental health needs of our community. With a dedicated team of 19 therapists, TLCC is honored to walk alongside individuals and families facing a wide variety of challenges. We count it a true blessing to be trusted with your care and to play a role in strengthening the well-being of our community.  As we reflect on this year, our hearts are full of gratitude—for your support, your courage, and the opportunity to make a difference together. From all of us at TLCC, we wish you a very Merry Christmas and a joyful, peaceful holiday season. May the coming year bring hope, healing, and continued connection.
December 1, 2025
We want to extend our heartfelt congratulations to one of our esteemed therapists, Caleb Scoville, MS, LPC . On Thursday, November 13th, the Hough Ear Institute (HEI) held its annual Awards Gala, where Caleb was honored with the Elevate Award for his outstanding collaboration with HEI and his dedicated facilitation of the Tinnitus Support Group over the past two years. Transforming Life Counseling Center is grateful for our continued partnership with the Hough Ear Institute. We are honored to provide a home for the Tinnitus Support Group throughout 2025 and look forward to supporting this meaningful work in the coming year. The group offers both in-person and virtual options, expanding access to individuals across the country. TLCC sincerely thanks the Hough Ear Institute—not only have we been privileged to help facilitate this group, but we have also been deeply blessed by the connections formed and the resilience of the individuals we have met through it. The Hough Ear Institute , located in Oklahoma City, is responsible for groundbreaking research, education, and humanitarian efforts in the field of hearing and overall wellness. Our metro community is truly fortunate to have such innovative and life-changing work happening right here at home. One key area of HEI’s research is the management and treatment of tinnitus. Individuals living with tinnitus often experience cognitive, emotional, and behavioral challenges, including persistent ringing or buzzing in one or both ears. These symptoms can lead to significant distress, anxiety, and depression, especially when combined with life stressors, underlying medical conditions, or repeated exposure to loud noise. For the past two years, HEI has hosted a Tinnitus Support Group, providing a compassionate space for those affected to gather, share experiences, and uplift one another. We are honored to continue supporting this vital resource. For more information—or to donate to this worthy and life-changing cause—please visit Hough Ear Institute . To join or share details about the Tinnitus Support Group, visit Tinnitus Support Group or call (405) 246-5433 for more information.
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November 30, 2025
By Corey DeGiacomo, LMFT-Candidate
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November 29, 2025
By Kevin Tutty, LPC If you have children, you know how easy it is to find Christmas centered around your kids. When I was single, I wondered why everyone became so busy this time of year. In a self-indulged world, marketing is designed to focus us on ourselves: It can be hard to focus on others. It wasn’t until I had a family that saw just how busy this time of year is! The Holidays are also a time of year when depression rises. I heard a pastor once say if you don’t want to feel a certain way, do something to take your mind off of how you are feeling. One great way to do this is to look for opportunities to help someone in need. For example, if you feel isolated, volunteer at a church, food bank, or other entity that helps others. This time of year is an excellent time to volunteer, as there is a greater need for volunteers in the non-profits that serve the people in our community. It is also a great way for a family to engage in a fun activity together, while helping those in need. I am convinced that once “the volunteer bug” gets someone, they will not need a reason to help others, as they will want to find opportunities to do that. This happened to me on a mission trip once and I wanted to return to the mission field the next chance I had to go. We are blessed by giving to others. When giving to those in need there is a distinction between two easily misinterpreted terms: sympathy and empathy. Sympathy is more self-focused: We get this feeling when we “feel” badly for someone in a difficult situation. On the other hand, we feel empathy when we are able to put ourselves in another’s place and see things from their perspective. When we empathize with another, our efforts are focused on the other person. The other person is validated because we are looking at things from their point of view, and understand their person’s situation or perspective. Volunteering is a great way to develop empathy, especially for those who are focused on their own wants and desires. Back to volunteering though, be prepared to get some resistance initially when proposing the idea of volunteering, especially if your kids are not used to it. Once you go, try to make it as fun as possible, scheduling a fun activity the family can engage in together along with the volunteer effort. Then, process the volunteer effort over dinner and see what other types of volunteering would be of interest to them next. There are a number of local agencies that would be good opportunities to volunteer. Here are just a few to get started: Regional Food Bank (12 and older): 405-972-11111 EARC Thrift Store (Downtown Edmond): 405-285-7658 (South Edmond): 405-348-6502 Hope Center (Edmond): 405-348-4680 Local churches can connect you to volunteer opportunities The City Rescue Mission in Downtown Oklahoma City (405-232-2709) offers groups a great opportunity to get a tour of the facility as well as serving the homeless. The Christmas and Holiday Season is such a fun time, with many activities and opportunities to serve others. We are truly more blessed when we are serving others! Kevin Tutty is a Licensed Practical Counselor and a clinical member at Transforming Life Counseling Center.
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November 28, 2025
By Caleb Scoville, LPC
November 27, 2025
Transforming Life Counseling Center is pleased to continue to expand our team of quality therapists with the addition of a new team member. We welcome our newest member: Necco Gill, Licensed Professional Counselor. This therapist supports TLCC in continuing to support the vast counseling needs of our community and brings new areas of training. For more information on her expertise and training, you can find her bio below and on our website. In addition to our licensed staff, TLCC also has pre-licensed candidates who receive supervision by our therapists and can offer lower fees in an effort to support clients needing therapy at a lower cost. For more information about our therapists, insurances we take and fees, our phone number is (405) 246-5433 Necco Gill, LPC
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